There are two schools of thought about cheating. One is "Once a trap, always a catch". The other is that the right structure set up can not become a recidivist. It is not easy to face the road of infidelity. I would be lying if I said with certainty that everything would be all right. Is it possible for you to bounce back and get your marriage on track after her husband has had an affair? Of course it is. However, the most important thing is to treat here and now.
What was her husband willing to throw her marriage and her family to frolic with another woman? Does this mean that not enough you like or you love yourself more than you? There are so many questions you need to get the answers. than;
Why did he cheat?
Is this the only time he cheated?
Do you still want?
Do you want to do cheating again?
You should stay and try to save your marriage?
According to interviews with husbands who cheat, the 4 main reasons for cheating are;
They were annoyed with the relationship and I wanted more variety
Her husband was pushing with her attitude and behavior
Your spouse is no longer connected with her
It's exciting to have a love story
It is clear that the trap is all about the husband's needs with little concern about his wife's needs. I guess that sums up the disappointment. This is what the cheater wants and feels as if he needed it.
As you know the results of infidelity in a total lack of confidence and it is hard to know if this is the only time her husband cheated. If he lied about it, is it possible that there are other hidden secrets? It is a question that will make you lose sleep for a long time. Trust is easily given, but once you lose is hard to come back. However, given the right structure and interaction with her husband, she can learn to trust him again. I know you probably do not feel that you can always trust him, but possible. You will be a little more careful than you were before.
Another question that will create the anxiety for you is "He still loves you"? There is only one way you know that he loves you. Not many times tells you that he loves you. It is for their actions. How it treats and respects you will know that it loves you. If your husband is wise, he is responsive to their needs. What he needs is respect, commitment, understanding, patience and cooperation. This does not mean that he must undergo all his mandates. However, given the situation that need to come out of their way to make sure you are able to forgive and move on. You have to get this and a little more.
The great unknown is "again fool you"? No one knows the answer to this question. To be honest, not even bother to think too much about it. Your approach must be fixing what is happening rather than worrying about what might happen. Your goals should be to strengthen their relationships so that her husband does not want to cheat. Eliminate the wrong excuses to cheat and be the best partner you can be. Should I choose to cheat and throw away your marriage, so be it.
A persistent question is whether you will hand over your husband or leave it deceptive. Not the choice is easy. Therefore, I suggest that you do not immediately take your mind. Give your relationship time to heal before making the decision. You can always decide to leave later. However, once you move a little hard to come back together.
What was her husband willing to throw her marriage and her family to frolic with another woman? Does this mean that not enough you like or you love yourself more than you? There are so many questions you need to get the answers. than;
Why did he cheat?
Is this the only time he cheated?
Do you still want?
Do you want to do cheating again?
You should stay and try to save your marriage?
According to interviews with husbands who cheat, the 4 main reasons for cheating are;
They were annoyed with the relationship and I wanted more variety
Her husband was pushing with her attitude and behavior
Your spouse is no longer connected with her
It's exciting to have a love story
It is clear that the trap is all about the husband's needs with little concern about his wife's needs. I guess that sums up the disappointment. This is what the cheater wants and feels as if he needed it.
As you know the results of infidelity in a total lack of confidence and it is hard to know if this is the only time her husband cheated. If he lied about it, is it possible that there are other hidden secrets? It is a question that will make you lose sleep for a long time. Trust is easily given, but once you lose is hard to come back. However, given the right structure and interaction with her husband, she can learn to trust him again. I know you probably do not feel that you can always trust him, but possible. You will be a little more careful than you were before.
Another question that will create the anxiety for you is "He still loves you"? There is only one way you know that he loves you. Not many times tells you that he loves you. It is for their actions. How it treats and respects you will know that it loves you. If your husband is wise, he is responsive to their needs. What he needs is respect, commitment, understanding, patience and cooperation. This does not mean that he must undergo all his mandates. However, given the situation that need to come out of their way to make sure you are able to forgive and move on. You have to get this and a little more.
The great unknown is "again fool you"? No one knows the answer to this question. To be honest, not even bother to think too much about it. Your approach must be fixing what is happening rather than worrying about what might happen. Your goals should be to strengthen their relationships so that her husband does not want to cheat. Eliminate the wrong excuses to cheat and be the best partner you can be. Should I choose to cheat and throw away your marriage, so be it.
A persistent question is whether you will hand over your husband or leave it deceptive. Not the choice is easy. Therefore, I suggest that you do not immediately take your mind. Give your relationship time to heal before making the decision. You can always decide to leave later. However, once you move a little hard to come back together.
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